Our story
When life changes in an instant
In October 2023, our world as a family was turned upside down.
My dad was diagnosed with oesophageal cancer, stage 3/4. He was also the sole carer for my mum, who had been living with vascular dementia since 2020, and whose condition was becoming more advanced.
In the space of weeks, everything changed. Dad lost six stone. He could no longer care for Mum. I moved back to Wales to support them both, working from my parents’ home while trying to hold everything together.
The moment I realised how alone families are
As Dad began his chemotherapy and radiotherapy, it became clear that Mum needed full-time nursing care. We had to find her a home. Quickly, under enormous pressure, while watching my dad fight for his life.
I remember standing there thinking: where do I even start?
All I had been given was a leaflet.
What followed was months of phone calls to different boards and bodies, forms with no guidance, terminology I’d never heard, and no clear answers about funding or eligibility. All while managing the most emotionally painful period of my life.
Dad lost his battle with cancer. We planned his funeral. We found Mum a nursing home. We navigated LPAs, Wills, end of life planning and bereavement admin. Bit by bit, largely alone.
Why The Care Compass exists
Throughout everything, one thought kept coming back to me: this information should all be in one place.
No family should have to piece it together alone, in the middle of a crisis, while also carrying the emotional weight of watching someone they love go through this.
If this platform helps one family navigate this journey a little more clearly, that’s enough. That’s everything.
The Care Compass was built for the person I was in October 2023. Lost, overwhelmed, and desperately wishing someone had left a light on.
— Steven Evans, Founder, The Care Compass
The Care Compass